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B: That doesn't really matter, Lucas. 'Cause in the end, it all hurts just the same.
There's so much I could say to this, but for now, I'll silence my thoughts.
That's the thing... No matter who tells you or how much they mean it, even if they never meant to hurt you, it can still hurt like hell and hurt just the same. I've heard that line; heard that line over and over. You know what? I wonder why any of those guys that spat out those words even bothered saying them. It didn't make the situation any better and it definitely didn't make the outcome any easier. As easy as it was for them to say, I kind of wished that it was just as easy to hear. But, it wasn't. I think it was even harder to hear; knowing that someone didn't mean to hurt you, but it happened anyway. Maybe, it's the fact that you believed it throughout the whole relationship and you could never imagine it happening. Is it so wrong to think that, though? You could be so caught up in all the great things that you're just that oblivious to the fact, that there may come a time where it isn't going to work and you aren't that great for each other.
I think the worst part about this happening is that it can make someone so jaded, especially if it's happened over and over again. Believe me, I would know about that. After all, I must admit, that I can be extremely jaded and not believe in any truth that any guy has to say to me; no matter how good it may sound. But, I don't think you can blame me for that either. It's unlike I let any of that hurt affect the decisions that I continue to still make. Being hurt doesn't mean I let that control anything good that may happen. I never let it get in the way of the fact that more than anything, I always try to see the good in people. I never let it get in the way of the faith that I have. Any of my friends that know my heartaches can see why I'm jaded; hell, anyone that consistently read my LJ can see it. The one thing I'm proud of though is that I am always able to bounce back from it.
I think, no matter how badly you've been hurt, you should never give up on the fact that you can and you will be happy again. I'm not saying that you won't get hurt again 'cause it can surely happen. That doesn't mean you should let the hurt control you and let it block out everything else. Take another chance. This world wasn't made to be perfect. No one was made to be perfect either. You weren't made to be perfect. So, it's okay to make mistakes. It's okay to be hurt. It's okay to be happy. It's okay if, for the time being, you don't want to believe again. But, I promise, things will always and only get better if you let it.
I let it and I swear to you, this is the best thing that has happened to me in a really good while.
That's the thing... No matter who tells you or how much they mean it, even if they never meant to hurt you, it can still hurt like hell and hurt just the same. I've heard that line; heard that line over and over. You know what? I wonder why any of those guys that spat out those words even bothered saying them. It didn't make the situation any better and it definitely didn't make the outcome any easier. As easy as it was for them to say, I kind of wished that it was just as easy to hear. But, it wasn't. I think it was even harder to hear; knowing that someone didn't mean to hurt you, but it happened anyway. Maybe, it's the fact that you believed it throughout the whole relationship and you could never imagine it happening. Is it so wrong to think that, though? You could be so caught up in all the great things that you're just that oblivious to the fact, that there may come a time where it isn't going to work and you aren't that great for each other.
I think the worst part about this happening is that it can make someone so jaded, especially if it's happened over and over again. Believe me, I would know about that. After all, I must admit, that I can be extremely jaded and not believe in any truth that any guy has to say to me; no matter how good it may sound. But, I don't think you can blame me for that either. It's unlike I let any of that hurt affect the decisions that I continue to still make. Being hurt doesn't mean I let that control anything good that may happen. I never let it get in the way of the fact that more than anything, I always try to see the good in people. I never let it get in the way of the faith that I have. Any of my friends that know my heartaches can see why I'm jaded; hell, anyone that consistently read my LJ can see it. The one thing I'm proud of though is that I am always able to bounce back from it.
I think, no matter how badly you've been hurt, you should never give up on the fact that you can and you will be happy again. I'm not saying that you won't get hurt again 'cause it can surely happen. That doesn't mean you should let the hurt control you and let it block out everything else. Take another chance. This world wasn't made to be perfect. No one was made to be perfect either. You weren't made to be perfect. So, it's okay to make mistakes. It's okay to be hurt. It's okay to be happy. It's okay if, for the time being, you don't want to believe again. But, I promise, things will always and only get better if you let it.
I let it and I swear to you, this is the best thing that has happened to me in a really good while.
xoxo
